DOES HE REALLY CARE?

                                                          

Often, women find it out-rightly difficult to understand men. They think they have it all figured out, but without any warning, the man pulls out of the relationship, leaving the woman looking in from the outside. These tips should help you decode if he really cares.

·         MAKING OUT TIME

One of the most universal signs that a man is interested in a woman is that he makes out time to see her, even if it is just for 5 minutes. If he is not able to see her one-on-one, he would use alternative means of keeping in touch through constant calls, emails, texts, BB messages etc.

·         PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT

When a man treats you in a special way and helps you out as much as he can even when it is not necessary, this might be a hint that he really cares. A man will go the extra mile for someone he cares for.

·         CATCHING YOUR ATTENTION

Some men go all out to catch the attention of the woman they are interested in, especially when they are around friends and family. They behave in an exaggerated manner around their friends and family when the person they care about is also around. They may even begin to crack jokes or talk more to make their opinions overshadow others.

·         THE EYE CONTACT

Some men are shy about making contact with the woman they really care about. You can catch him looking in your direction when you are not looking and he quickly turns away when you look his way. However, some try to make eye contact.

·         REMEMBER WHAT YOU SAY.

When a man cares for you, he remembers the conversations you’ve had, especially what you said. He even remembers some insignificant details such as the dress you wore when you first met.

·         SPECIAL DAYS

Women are good at remembering special days such as birthdays, days they met, wedding anniversary, etc. Men on the other hand are not so good with dates, but if he remembers your birthday for instance, it’s a sign that you are special, especially if it comes with a gift.

·         WORKS ON HIS LOOKS

When a man is in love with a woman, he makes conscious effort to groom himself more, he is more clean-shaven, improves his style, and may sometimes over-spray his cologne.

·         ASK IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSIP

If a man really cares about you, he will be interested to know if you are in a relationship with another man. He might ask you directly or find out from someone else.

·         MEETING HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY

Meeting his family and friends is a great sign that he cares for you. Men are usually hesitant about introducing just any woman to people who are very dear to them. On the other hand, if he has not introduced you to any of his peeps after months, then it could mean he is probably unsure of his feelings for you.